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Leadership advice - John Maxwell's Becoming a person of influence

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2021/04/25
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John Maxwell's Becoming a person of influence

My neighbour gave me several books when she moved out, and this is one of them.
I want to be a leader who leads someone or a person who can be helpful to others, so I'm trying hard to improve myself and help others.
This book contains good character, attitude, and some advice related to it.

1. How to develop a personality related to integrity

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Show a consistent personality.
2.
Match what you say with what you do.
3.
Be honest.
4.
Be humble.
5.
Help others.
6.
Keep your promise.
7.
Be a man of worship.
8.
Participate in each other's lives.

2. How to be a trustworthy person

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Stick to honesty and trust.
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Decide before you fall into the temptation of money.
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Small things are important.
4.
Do what you have to do before you do what you want every day.

3. Nurturing is giving

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Love.
2.
Respect.
3.
Stability.
4.
Recognition.
5.
Encouragement.

4. The benefits of a nurturing person

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Positive self-esteem.
2.
Sense of belonging.
3.
Eyes.
4.
A heart that values oneself.
5.
Hope.

5. How to raise a child naturally

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Make every effort.
2.
Trust.
3.
Get closer.
4.
Give it for nothing.
5.
Give a chance.
6.
Lead to a higher standard.

6. How to trust someone - BELIEVE

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Believe before the other person succeeds. (B elieve)
2.
Emphasize the advantages. (E mphasize)
3.
Recall the successes of the past. (L ist)
4.
Inspire confidence when failing. (I nstill)
5.
Experience success together. (E xperience)
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Imagine your future success. (V isualize)
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Expect a higher standard of living. (E xpect)

7. Benefits to the listener

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Show respect.
2.
Relationships are formed.
3.
You can broaden your knowledge.
4.
You can get ideas.
5.
Loyalty is earned.
6.
It's a great help to yourself and your opponent.

8. Things that interrupt your listening

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1.
Overestimation of speaking.
2.
Lost focus.
3.
Mental fatigue.
4.
Stereotypes.
5.
A burden of heart.
6.
Selfish attitude.

9. How to improve your listening skills

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Look at the person.
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Stay out of it.
3.
Understand.

10. Eric Allan Poe's Lesson

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Listen with your head and heart.
2.
Listen with a heart of understanding.
3.
Listen to the meaning behind words as well as words.
4.
Listen to the content and emotions together.
5.
Listen with your eyes.
6.
Listen to attention as well as opinions.
7.
Listen to what you don't say.
8.
Listen with a heart of acceptance.
9.
Listen to the other person's fears and heartbreaks.
10.
Think about how you want the other person to listen to you and listen to you in that way.
11.
Know the intent of the moment we talk.
12.
Check your feelings.
13.
Hold judgment.
14.
Organize your opponent's words from time to time.
15.
Ask questions for confirmation.
16.
Always prioritize what you hear.

11. Scottish author and thinker Thomas Carlyle's famous quote

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There is only one life. Life is just a moment between two eternity. We don't have a second chance forever.

12. How to choose who to grow

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Choose a person whose philosophy of life is similar to yours.
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Choose a person with potential.
3.
Choose someone you can help.
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Know your opponent's potential.
5.
Start when appropriate.
When encouraging one's growth, one should present short-term goals as well as long-term goals.

13. Step 9 for building relationships

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Don't take people's attention for granted.
2.
Have a mindset that you can make a difference.
Believe that you can make a difference.
Believe in the fact that giving first will change things.
Believe that the person you're in a relationship with can make a difference.
Believe that together we can make a big difference.
1.
Take the initiative.
2.
Find common ground.
3.
Recognize and respect individuality and differences.
4.
Find what the other person wants.
5.
Have a sincere conversation.
6.
Create a shared experience.
7.
If you're in a relationship, go ahead.

Last Summary

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Every man you meet, be true at every moment.
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Raise the people around you so they can value themselves.
3.
Instill confidence by trusting them.
4.
Listen to them and build a better relationship.
5.
Help them realize their dreams by understanding them.
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Grow them to develop their potential.
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Sail together until they can stand alone.
8.
Build a special relationship so that they can move on to higher levels.
9.
Empower them to realize their potential.
10.
Train another leader so that your influence can continue to grow through someone.
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